"The presumption that they can do one and not the other "
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is flawed IMHO.
A belief that "rules are for the little people", that "I am special and entitled to operate by different expectations morally and in all other ways" touches all parts of one's life. A predator does not limit himself to one arena. A man who is prepared to ignore personal boundaries is a man who will ignore other boundaries.
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"I think it is safe to say that while the South is hardly Christ-centered, it is most certainly Christ-haunted." "All human nature vigorously resists grace because grace changes us and the change is painful." — Flannery O'Connor